Chose and the love was words that sometimes changed someone to not himself. When being pointed with the problem that must follow with the heart, humankind occasionally did not know whatever that was true. People say followed your conscience, because the heart had not been wrong. However humankind that was underlined to love perfection was unsatisfied with what must follow by the heart. Abused and the criticism that was explained when the heart evidently “wrong”, according to human logic. This the phenomenon that often happened, then not rare humankind took the action “stupid”, that is the suicide. Whether because of the so horrifying mental pressure or only because not the strength of faith and the human conviction in his heart. According to Wilson, prila I humankind has been arranged and has been programed in a genetic manner, both spiritually and the natural characteristics biological humankind that was dropped off by his parents (psikologi komunikasi:34). Quoted from the Wilson opinion a moment ago, humankind already when being born has been programed how his psychological condition and his biological characteristics? Biologically possibly yes true, but how spiritually? Through the Delagado experiment towards monkey aggression when being stimulated his brain, showed that the monkey will be aggressive against the foreign monkey but not with the foreign monkey female (psikologi komunikasi:44 (Packard, 1978:45). Took Edward G. Simpson to embrace factors situational, that psychological humankind could in influenced by the Ekologis Factor that included Geographical, the climate and metereologis the place of the humankind remained, factor the design and arsitektural, factor temporal, the analysis of the atmosphere prila I, factor technological and factor social (psychology komunikasi:44).
Let's focus on together would factor social. Certainly you were still remembering the biological lesson during the period of the JUNIOR HIGH SCHOOL, that fenotip will be affected by the environment. Yes could simplify that the characteristics could from the parents disappear because of the environment. Again to the love and chose, why there was the psychological element inside? The love, clear connected was very tight spiritually humankind. Where when humankind felt comfortable was close to the opponent of his kind. Good that because ketertaikan physical or prila I from the opponent of his kind. However, once more the love, throughout history the trip the story of the love of the human child was always pointed with words chose. Till today then, the love always was linked was tight to chose. Chose between good and bad. Good and bad this then many fersi him, according to logic or the heart. Many people that regretted because of choosing badly and rarely being not ended by means of tragic. Killed his couple or by killing himself personally because of not having the heart to kill his couple. Problems were like that realised or were not to be influenced with the level of their respective maturity of the individual. The ego also definitely. When being pointed with the choice and was required chose, we often heard voices and these voices only we that heard. Logic always chose whatever that in accordance with the mathematical formula tau in fact like the trade/profit and loss. However the heart chose that in accordance with comfort and like that often was said by people beforehand the heart was always true, but did not mean you must follow whether conscience. Chose with the heart considered with logic. Plenty of consideration that only used logic brought the wound and regret, even so that only weighed with the available heart ate the heart. Then utilised the heart and considered with logic because of the love indeed don't know whatever that was wrong and that was true, knew him only came and went as you wish.